I told one of my good friends about my sexuality.. I didn’t plan it at all.. it just happened.. and to my surprise, she was very calm about it.. in fact, she told me that she knew that I was gay when we were in the same company more than 7 years ago!! That showed how out of touch I was with my own emotions and sexuality..

Told her about my latest crush.. on one of my housemates (I shall call her S).. It was some sort of love at first sight.. I was captivated by S the first time I lay eyes on her.. and the feelings just grew deeper.. add to the fact that we stay under the same roof, I see her almost everyday, and we have meals together everyday!!

My friend asked me to ask S one question, so as to establish if I should go after her or not.. I won’t want to cause any awkwardness between us if S is straight.. but in the end I still asked.. not to her alone, but together with the other housemate too.. the answer S gave was not straight forward.. and that just make the whole thing more unclear..

After my 1 week overseas trip, my feelings for S didnt subdued at all.. in fact, I thought of her every day.. So indeed, distance and separation do make the hearts grow fonder.. Also, I came out to another friend of mine whom I met during my holiday.. again, she wasn’t a bit suprised.. she was just waiting for me to confess to her.. oh boy.. was I such an obvious Lez???

Don’t think I would be doing much coming out in the recent months to come.. I think that none of my other friends would be able to take the news or accept me as I am.. so that’s it to my coming out story for now..