Mmm.. This will be a place to pen down some personal thoughts about my own sexuality.. and also how I really feel about certain things that are not very politically correct, to say the least..
I will be writing in English, Chinese and hopefully some Japanese too.. 
If you can read Chinese, there might be more information on me over there.. 
More about me:
Born in KK, grew up in K, studied in BM before going to Singapore for my basic degree… work there for almost 8 years before going over to Tokyo to do my Masters on scholarship in 2007.. Graduated this Sept.. Now back in Malaysia, looking for jobs outside of the country.. Hoping to get out ASAP.. Can’t stay where I can’t be truthful to myself..
Never been in any relationship thus still a V. Had strong feelings for a few girl friends along the years but never really thought much about it until recently when I came to realize my sexuality.. gradually accepting it..
Fiercely independent, awkwardly reserved, wittily sarcastic and brutally frank.. temperamental at times but a dependable friend.. Thinks and feels too much some times.. People who don’t know me thinks that I am damn serious and tolerates no nonsense, but close friends would see the clowning-around and let-my-hair-down side of me..
Not your usual demure and petite Asian lady.. At 5 feet 6 (or 1.68m), I am slightly taller than the average Asia ladies.. however, I am built like Xena, instead of Gabrielle.. although I can say that I am healthier than average ladies in the 30s, but with a BMI of 25.2, I can afford to lose another 3kg… 
which I am working on it..
I used to play lots of sports during my university days.. before coming to Japan, while holding a 8-to-5 job I used to jog three times a week and play tennis occasionally.. picked up karate when I came to Japan.. now brown belt.. gonna find a dojo to continue once I settled down..
A social drinker who haven’t been drinking as much since I turned 30 a couple of years ago.. loves liquor and dislike wine.. having a sweet tooth also meant that I don’t really like beer too.. but don’t mind drinking it if there is nothing left to drink.. 
I think I can hold my liquor pretty well too.. will only allow myself to get high once and I was around people that I trust..
Having a BIG crush on my housemate, S.. Going through emotions that I had never experienced before.. More bitter than sweet so far, as this liking is only one-sided.. 
Trying to get over her as we have already parted since Aug..
I am learning more about myself and my capacity to love everyday.. Hope that by the time I really meet someone who will also love me in return, I will be a person worth loving..
For those who wish to drop me a line.. I am contactable at lone(dot)ranger(dot)g(at)gmail(dot)com
